Perfectionism and Procrastination - A Direct Relationship.
I'm not putting it off any longer. It is time to tackle my procrastination head on. This affects every aspect of my life. I procrastinate about housework, making doctors appt's, budgeting, paying bills, doing my research - EVERYTHING!
So what does perfectionism have to do with procrastination?
I mean surely, if I was a true perfectionist, then time management would be included in that? But no, I use perfectionism as an excuse.
The more I put pressure on myself to do well, the more likely I am to fail. Not only is it a direct excuse "Hey, I can't do it properly/have the perfect routine/ do it right everytime" but it also affects that other common excuse - the fear of failure. Perhaps that is where the procrastination comes from in the first place. I want to be perfect, I know I am going to fail at that for sure!
So I need to stop with the perfectionism and the procrastination should go away. Take off the pressure - I don't have to be perfect, I am not going to be perfect, and that is Okay - It doesn't make me a failure. It makes me REAL!
The solution....
I am going to make a commitment to not be perfect. I will eat the wrong thing sometimes, I will skip an occasional day of exercise. I will have a slump day (especially if PMS is involved). But I will do SOMETHING - if I miss my normal exercise I will do SOMETHING, Anything really - even just a minute of skipping, or jumping on the trampoline! I will still be here, I will still go on, and I will keep moving forward.
So True Jen !
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